What is he supposed to do with his arms? There’s no ideal spot for his arms during missionary.
Or, also, that could actually be happening.Ħ. All right, that might not be what’s actually happening, but if he’s self-conscious, it might be what he thinks is happening. He’s slowly crushing you and pressing you into the mattress, breathing heavily and sweating all over you. It’s learning to play “Hot Cross Buns” on the recorder. Missionary feels lame because everyone treats it as the default sex position. And for him, this is the opposite of laziness.Ĥ. Maybe he just woke up and you’re looking for some lazy morning sex. Typically, missionary sex means the guy is going to wind up doing all the thrusting. This is not the sex position for the lazy man. It is so important for the health of your marriage and the satisfaction of your sex life.Ĭheck out this post that I wrote about: 3 Things You Can Do Tonight to Spice Things Up.3. Really look at one another, making eye contact, during these times. If you do not have mirrors to use for watching each other during your intimate times, find other ways to see each other. If you see your spouse’s face in a mirror and how they are loving on you either while during sex or oral sex, it makes your connection even deeper. That is why visual stimulation is so helpful. It can be hard to keep your mind on what is happening. When you are pleasuring one another, seeing what is going on is a great way to connect, especially when you make eye contact during sex with a mirror. Watching Yourselves Have Sex Helps You Connect Hold it like you would a handheld mirror and position it so you can see what’s happening during oral sex or other types of foreplay. Use the Camera on Your Phone For Mirror Sexĭon’t have a handheld mirror or access to any other mirrors during sex? Then just turn on the camera on your phone and use it. Your phone camera will show you the different angles that you are hoping for. If you do not have a small one, then consider turning on the camera option on your phone. The view you get to see with a smaller mirror up close is much more intimate. Handheld ones can be moved around or sat in a place that will help you get to see up close what’s happening. Consider using smaller ones that you can hold in your hand. This is a great way to have hotter sex! Consider Handheld Mirrorsĭepending on lighting and distance, it can be hard to see what is going on without a mirror. Visual stimulation is so important for you and your spouse to connect during sex. Here are a few standing sex positions you can try.Īlso, you can just stand in front of the mirror and do some foreplay moves to get turned on. Maybe you can use a chair or something else that is mobile. This will require a bit of creativity for your furniture choice. If you do not have the ability to hang strategic mirrors in your room, then consider getting in front of one that is in your room. However, hanging a few around your room is inconspicuous. I’m not one for hanging a mirror from your ceiling (because who wants their kids to ask questions?). Permanently placing a few around your room makes it easy to see what is going on. Hanging a long mirror on a wall is a good idea as well. You can attach a long one to a door if you have a door that would give you a good view of your bed. If you have a large mirror on your chest of drawers, try to put that piece of furniture at the end of your bed. If at all possible, you should place a mirror or a few in your room in strategic places. The more you see your body naked and refuse to criticize yourself, the more you’ll grow to accept your body. If you are someone that has a hard time seeing yourself naked or being happy with what you see in the mirror, then spend time alone in front of a mirror. Get Comfortable in Front of Mirrors Alone
Having mirror sex can be amazing and awesome! Here are some tips that I put together to get you started.